Awhile ago my cat had been meowing for my attention. I was sitting at the computer doing work when I felt him brush against my leg. I gave him some pets here and there, but ultimately my work became my main focus.
Knowing this, my cat decided to jump onto the swivel chair, at first nuzzling my back as I worked, then climbing higher to be in my line of sight. Once again, I gave him a pet here and there but went back to work. He began to whimper.
I started to rush through my work (which ended up creating even worse work) and realized the best way to deal with the issue was to deal with it in that moment. Sliding my laptop away, I scooped him up and repositioned him so that he would be laying against my chest. I held him firmly and began to coo and pet him gently.
My cat, Bruce, watching over my shoulder as I work
By giving him my undivided attention, he began to purr back satisfied that his mother was finally responding to him. I sat there with him, being present in the moment, listening only to his purrs as they filled the silence. I realized then how easy it was to make him happy.
For some cats like mine, just showing you care and giving them that one on one time is appreciated. I felt that his life was really simple then, only asking for food and water as well as love. I began to look at my own life and reflected about the little things that made me happy.
Petting him there, I realize just how rich he and I were and I was grateful to him for showing me that as well. It was almost a sign to stop overworking myself and take a moment to practice gratitude. I recommend it for everyone to practice daily, not only because of this coming holiday but just because it’s good to recognize all the amazing things life has offered and will offer you.